You may not know this about me, but for the first 15 years of my career, I had a side gig as an ER doctor. One shift stands out. A fit, attractive woman in her early 50s walked into the ER saying, “I just don’t feel right.” That was her only complaint. The female ER nurses, unfortunately, didn’t take her seriously -probably because she looked - and triaged her into a side room to be seen later.